Will a queen talk to a chambermaid about the king how will the chambermaid understand what is that the queen is going through or has to understand why am I going to go get advice from somebody who has a failed marriage. Who doesn’t understand what it means to be with a man like that. Number 2 if I go and tell my friend how horrible grant was about something which there is two sides of the story, and then am going to make up with grant but now I’ve told them that grant is domineering and grant is controlling he only thinks about himself they are stuck with that so I’ve made up with my husband I’m going to hang out with my husband Susie Q. she is like so how’s grant oh is he doing, the domineering thing again? Boom am lit back up didn’t have a fight with him, but am lit back up either. I’m trying to talk to her and convince her that my husband isn’t the piece of garbage that I made him out to be earlier. I’m trying to convince her about that or I’m reignited about the upset and how he does not treat me with respect and he does treat me like that and I’m always doing this for him and he doesn’t do that. And then boom now I’m home with my husband and guess what he does one little thing where is like I’m going here to do this did it and I’m like, oh really so it my job to take care of the kids. You just get to do whatever you want you just think about only yourself do you understand I just now pick the fight that wasn’t even there because I’m already stimulated from this conversation that I had with this girl.